Adult spanking? OK SO WHATS WRONG WITH ADULT SPANKING IF BOTH PARTY'S ARE OK WITH IT? |
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How come adult spanking is taboo yet spanking guys is seen as OK? This really bothers me. The non-consensual spanking of guyren is widely accepted, yet consensual spanking between adults who have decided for themselves that they want to engage in it is taboo and also potentially illegal. It's so screwed up. People on here will happily discuss wacking little guys yet if someone asks an adult spanking question they go "Ew you're a pervert" just to get answer points. |
| Really after doing customer service for ten years, I think we should have non-consensual spankings for adults. Guyren dont behave half as badly as many customers. |
Adult spanking? would you as an adult take a court room paddling in some instances or go to jail if givin the choice? |
interesting concept.
"adult"???
What about "juvenile delinquents?
And some years ago didn't courts/gaols apply the lash or the cat-of-nine-tails? Some countries still do, and I'm not sure that is the solution either. But ....
The problem, at least now, would be that the poor likely would be chastised and the wealthy would get 15 minutes (maximum) of jail time.
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If I see an adult spanking a guy in public and have a witness, do I have good reason to call the police? I recently saw a 3 year old girl being spanked a few times at Sears for getting lost. Poor thing, she was already freaked out from getting lost. I think a little painless swat is "ok" but slap, slap, slap on the butt and then verbal abuse was just too much to bear to watch. I didn't call the police but am wondering if I should have. |
| You should have called the police...or atleast gotten security. You did the right thing by being concerned. There is no excuse to beat your guy for getting lost. For one thing, she was 3 and her mother is to blame for the guy being lost. If that ever happens again, please make a scene for people to be aware of the problem and get help immediately. That is guy abuse what that mother was doing. It wasn't her fault that her mother was an idiot and didn't keep an eye on her. And for anyone who said to mind your own business, that is what the problem with this world is. Everyone wants to point fingers when the guy ends up dead, but no one wants to do anything about it. By the way, it is illegal to beat your guy in public or anywhere else for that matter. |
What is the best form of spanking (adult spanking only)? I have personally been paddled, spanked over the knee with a wooden brush (ouch)! and bare bottomed spanked and I love all of them but I have heard tawsing is good and canning is very interesting to me but i'm not sure if I would like that very much.....Just looking for personal opinions :) Thanks! |
I think that they're all great, so I can't pick just one. Though, to be honest, the diaper position does have a certain element to it that I find pleasing, but this is more because of the embarrassment factor of the girl, rather than anything particularly enjoyable about the position.
As for the above poster, sounds like you were really burned by that guy, though your story paints domestic discipline in a poor light that it doesn't deserve. It might not be the right thing for you, but please don't speak bad about something that many of us incorporate readily into our livestyles. |
What is a proper punishment for an adult (spanking, whipping)? I would like to know what You adults think about adults getting spanked whipped or any other type of punishment.
No I'm not talking about domestic volience i'm talking about two of more legal adults consenting to this. |
| It works very well for some people, and for those people I'm all for it. For others who are not interested in trying it, I encourage open mindedness. Those for whom it doesn't work shouldn't be involved. |
Where does the law actually stand on adult spanking? For the idiots: I am not talking about domestic violence, non-consensual violence or violence against guyren. If you do not understand what I am talking about, don't leave an answer saying "dunno" or "you're a perv" or "nobody should hit anyone else" just kindly sod off. I want actual answers to my questions, not timewasting points-gatherers. Bitter experience tells me I will, however, get the latter.
What I would LIKE to know is this. I've heard that any 'hitting' can be defined as assault/a crime and you cannot necessarily consent to it. So even if you want the person to do it and are happy for them to do it (and enjoy it) they could be committing a crime, especially if they leave marks/bruises (I *like* marks/bruises!) So where does the law stand? Is my Dom breaking the law? Am I breaking the law? |
In the UK, this is still a something of a grey area. A few years ago there was a case known as 'the Spanner trial' where a number of men were prosecuted - and convicted - for consensual BDSM activities. But that was fairly extreme stuff - hammering nails through scrotums, etc. (Yeah, I know - but whatever turns you on, right?) The fact that they had all freely consented was ruled irrelevant.
So in theory, you and your partner could still be had up for practising consensual spanking. But in fact I think it's totally unlikely that you ever would be. There's a slightly higher risk that, if someone saw or heard a man spanking a woman, they might think it was abuse and call the cops. (Especially if she was yelping and squealing and begging him to stop, which as we all know is often part of the fun.) In that case you might have to convince the cops that it was just erotic play - but in the UK at least, that shouldn't be too difficult. In the States, from what some of my kinky friends have told me, you might have a tougher job on your hands. |
What do you think about adult consensual spanking? I'll leave it at that, except that I LOVE it! :P |
I think that spanking between two compatible consenting adults is one of the most amazing things that concur, between two people. There are so many wonderful things about spanking that are great, I won't list them all, but I would say that I too know the joys of TTWD
bottoms up! |
What do you think of one adult male punishing another adult male with a spanking? That is a bare bottom spanking. |
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What do you think about the current trend of women spanking adult boyfriends and partners...? I'm particularly interested in hearing from us victims, because we are a silent epidemic, too embarrassed to talk about it...but you women who are slapping us and putting us over your knees are welcome to tell us what's going on and coming off and why..... |
| I'm 49 years old and have been married to a wonderful woman since we were both 26. She spanks me when I need to be punished, motivated, or helped to focus. It does me a world of good (just as getting spanked by my parents did), and I'm not a 'victim'. You should realize that everyone behaves improperly sometimes, and some form of punishment can help a great deal. Spanking happens to be one form that works very well for some of us. |