Why is it that Skinny young guys are attracted to older men that are chubby and are called bears? im very curious to know what leads to skinny gay guys to like older gay bears chubby men or cubs |
Sexual desire crisscross all spectrums. Not ALL skinny young guys are attracted to chubby older bears. Far from it! Perhaps that's been YOUR limited observation, but it's simply not true.
As for why chubby men are called bears, that, too, is a mis-observation. Only the HAIRY ones are bears --for somewhat obvious reasons.
CUBS, on the other hand, are those men of any size and volume of hair attracted to BEARS. Usually they are younger, but even that is open.
A few more years being exposed to gay male culture will help clear up your understandings, as it can and does get a little complicated. Good luck! |
Why are chubby gay men/bears/chubs/chasers so shunned from regular gay society? Why can't we be accepted as equals?
Just because I'm overweight and have body hair doesn't mean I can't be friends with you! I'm not asking you to sleep with me, just hang out and be cool! |
| I do not know. However, I think its because some men are shallow. I have started working out last year. I have lost about 110#s. I know where you are coming from. I am still the same person I was when i was heavy. Its just people do not want to take the time to get to know some one I think. Its just all instant gratification for most I suppose. Then again I do not have a PH.D so what do I know. |
Why does a lot of the gay/same-sex art in Japan deal with bears/chubby men? I mean I don't have anything against bears, I'm just curious why?
Badi appears to be the only non-bear site. Does anyone have any non-bear sites? |
While in the mass media in Japan, gays are portrayed as feminine (or transsexual), the markets that target gays focus on the "masculine" gays. Being hairy is seen as one type of marker of masculinity. I don't actually look at gay websites/magazines, so I'm not sure about the fat/chubby men.
(as a sidenote, you ask for links to "non-bear websites", but providing links to pornography is against the Yahoo!Answers guidelines...) |
Can a chubby and hairy gay guy get a job as a dancer at a club? I dance really well, and I hold my weight really well, I was just wondering if gay clubs, specifically (probably) bear clubs ever had gogo dancers? i very obviously couldn't be a dancer at a normal club, so i was wondering. thanks! |
| Maybe, if they are looking for bears. You never know until you audition! |
Why is it tha some gay guys are afraid? why is it that some gay guys are afraid to let other people know that they love chubby men and gay bear men?? are they embarrased or scared to be judged. or they afraid an attractive skinny man will loose hes reputation hanging out with a fat man in public whats the deal i want to know ? |
| i dunno... most gay guys are already pretty proud about what they are about so flaunt it... havent run into that one beofre but i doubt its everybody! |
Gay Chubby Chaser??? Is it weird that i'm only turned on by chubby or bear like thicker males???? My friends call me a chubby chaser. |
| Sounds normal to me, each person has their own taste. |
How come there is no latino/hispanic gay bear porn? The only latino/hispanic men in gay porn are super skinny guys. I can not find any chubby spanish guys in gay porn. Every spanish guy in my city is chubby, and some of them have to be gay. Why can't anyone get them to take their clothes off for a camera? |
| The market is much smaller for that type of porn and directors want to appeal to the greatest amount of potential customers. |
Gay guys: What do you think of bears? If you don't know, "bears" are a gay sub-community composed of older hairy men with big builds, either muscular or overweight. Basically, gay men who try to look as masculine as possible.
Anyway, I was just wondering what the gay community in general thinks of bears. I know bear porn isn't the most mainstream style of gay pornography, but is it something that every gay guy is at least a little interested in? Or is it more of a fetish with a specific audience? Do some people think hairyness is always gross? Are some people only attracted to muscular bears, but not chubby ones? Post your thoughts.
Also, if you're into bear porn, please post your age. I'm curious as to what demographic watches bear porn the most.
Personally, I'm 18, bear porn is by far my favorite kind. I find hyper-masculinity extremely attractive. I'm not into the leather stuff at all, though. I don't really get that. |
| I find some bears attractive and some not I think it's all a preference. I've been to a bear bar before and had a great experience. I wouldn't label it a fetish since it's just a type of look like muscled guy's or skinny guys. I've known people to only be attracted to the bear type because it exudes so much masculinity. Bear porn is more mainstream depending on the area you live in. |
Gay tattoos? [chubby chaser.]? So I know what bears have a bear print tattoo, what do chubby chasers have? I think I want one. What about the chubbies themselves? |
| a bear trap |
Where can i find gay bear porn Filmmakers? I want to be a model on a bear chubby porn vid and i would love to kwnow where are those filmmakers.
If anyone knows something about it please tell me |
| Okay this is my area, as I am a bear. BiggerCity has links to things like that. Also so look at Bearmen.com, Bearciti.com, Bearwww.com, and there is a rag out called Bears Life that probably has places you can look. These are places you can start looking. |