How risky is male/male oral sex, in terms of STDs? Does it matter whether you are receptive or insertive? Thanks a million! :-) |
| E&W - The riskiest male/male sex is anal receptive, BUT oral receptive and insertive sex can transmit STDs either way for syphilis, gonorrhea, and herpes. HIV is rarely possible if you receive oral from an HIV positive person and you have any open wound in your mouth to allow any receptive blood contact. Some, but not guaranteed protection is provided by condoms and latex dental dam squares (sold in pharmacy). |
Male to male forced oral sex. How is it classified? How is adult male to adult male forced oral sex legally classified? Sexual abuse, sexual assault or rape? It should be classed as rape since it certainly involves the violaton of a person's body by a penis. |
California answer -
Rape is the act of sexual intercourse (261 PC). It must involve a penis and a vagina. That being said, this crime MUST involve one male and one female.
Oral Copulation (288a PC) described this violation as the act of copulating the mouth of one person with the sexual organ or anus of another person. This is not gender specific.
Both sections go on to describe the specifics of when the crime occurs (duress, by force, unconscious of the act) and do not preclude voluntary, age appropriate (over 18) acts.
So, to answer your question, in California, the act you described would be a violation of 288a PC. |
How do i know if i've gotten something from giving oral sex to a male? What should i do? I gave oral sex to a male like two weekends ago. And now i have a little white bump on the inside of my bottom lip. Its not painful or anything but how do i know if its anything bad or not. It was my first time doing it. And also i didn't do it with a condom. So what should i do? |
| Little white bump sounds like an ulcer or canker sore. It will go away by itself in about a week usually. I wouldn't worry too much. I doubt it's herpes if that's what you're worried about. If you're really concerned go get it checked out, the doctor should be able to tell you straight away just by looking at it. |
How to perform oral sex (both male and female)? Is oral sex harmful? I want to have oral sex. But have no knowledge about the same. Please help me. |
Oral sex is a very fun way to experiment with your partner. It's a VERY good way to give your partner pleasure without actual penetration.
For a female, the best way you can give her oral sex is to lubricate your fingers with a lubricant and start out with one finger and slide it in and out of her, and then switch to two, and three... as many as she's willing to let you try. You can also do what's called 'eating her out', and use your tongue to lick all around her vagina. You can move your tongue back and forth on her clitoris, which will surely drive her CRAZY, because she could have an orgasm and you'd be thanked for that in the end, lol, but a good way to send her over the edge is to stick one finger in and out of her while you're eating her out.
For a male, one way you can give him pleasure is to give him what is called a 'handjob' and you wrap your hand around his penis, (lubricant would be a lot easier if it's used) and slide it up and down, starting at a slow speed and going faster as you move along. You can also give a '*******' by sucking on a guy's penis. You just move your mouth up and down on his penis going faster as you move along. You DO NOT use teeth for any reason, unless your man is into that kind of stuff. It's very painful for them. You keep doing this until he ejaculates, or 'cums'
Oral sex can be harmful. Diseases can be transmitted, so it's best to talk to your parnter about their sexual history or go and get checked for any possible future diseases.
I hope this helped! :) |
How long should a 15 year old male last during oral sex? Im 15, and im almost positive i wont be having sex for a while, but i still feel like when i do, im gonna go real quickly, and i feel disabled kinda. How long is a 15 year old supposed to last, during oral or vaginal? |
According to the Mayo Clinic, the average time to ejaculation during vaginal sex is 2-10 minutes.
Different kinds of stimulation may change how quickly or slowly a person reaches orgasm. If you want to increase the time of arousal before reaching ejaculation/orgasm, you will need to recognize your own signs of arousal. There is a link below to the SFSI website where they explain ways to control when you ***. |
Can you transmit hpv or std to a male by performing oral sex? can you transmit hpv or std to a male by performing oral sex? |
ABSOLUTELY YES. As a retired nurse epidemiologist many STDs are spread with oral sex. Chlamydia and gonorrhea thrive in the back of the throat. Syphilis, herpes, Hep B, and HIV are other sources and spreads.
Visit cdc.gov |
Has anyone ever transmitted a cold sore (herpes) to their male partner during oral sex? Even if they were not having one at the time. Dr's say it's possible but how likely is that? Wouldn't pretty much nobody, if 80% of the population has the virus like they say, be able to give oral sex without worrying about this. |
The virus is always in the body of the person who has it, so they can therefore transmit it even if they do not have open sores. This is called Viral Shedding.
There are two types of Herpes Simplex 1 and Simplex 2. The 80% comes from the Herpes Simplex 1 which is the Oral type and yes at one point or another, most people get this virus. The Herpes 2 is the STD. Either form can actually attack your genitals and become the STD. So yes, you can get it from Oral sex (or give it). |
Why do people feel wrong to give oral sex to a male/female? About a month or two ago my friends and I were talking about oral sex. And they all said I believe it is fine for a male to do it, but it is nasty if ever a female gives a male oral sex. My outlook on it is oral sex is it fine by both parties but it should be a understanding that oral sex is not be given to every guy just like oral sex should not be given to every female. But also how do you want a male to give you oral sex but not give him any if after you both were in a relationship for a long time. Now if there is a understanding that one will be done without the other then that is fine. But why is it so wrong to give oral sex to a male or why do males feel like it is wrong to give oral sex to female. |
Certain body parts are made for certain things. Stop being so lustful it will bring about your death of the mind. It will keep you from loving any one.
It is another way to mutilate the body in order to become mindless. |
Is it never safe to preform oral sex on a male if he has warts? My boyfriend found out he has warts and recently had them burned off. We haven't done anything sexual since, but I am afraid of getting them if we do. I'm conserned about oral sex as well, is there any safe way of giving him oral without contracting it? (besides condoms) Can he give it to me by giving me oral? Can condoms really prevent me from getting it? |
| The virus is there so it can easily be transmitted. I hear "Immune Glory" works good for HPV and well as for herpes. I use if for herpes and haven't had any outbreaks since I've been taking it. |